Camp Dreams

April 2021

I have been dreaming a lot lately. Remembering dreams, that is. Seems when I wake up before 5:00am I can recall them but any time after that and I am just bleary-eyed and wobbly. One recent dream stood out because it was so vivid and detailed, about my place in Maine. I have been thinking about camp a lot lately, as I am heading up there next month for the first time this year. I also recently received an email from the State of Maine asking if I wanted to renew my fishing license for 2021. Well of course I am renewing and for many years in the future, God willing. In my dream I was driving down camp road as far as the recent snowplow had cleared. After that I walked the mile or so the rest of the way to camp. The cabin side door was unlocked. I opened it and as I stamped the snow off my feet a family of mice were awakened and scampered in all directions. The furniture was covered as it had been prepared for winter when I left in September. My rods were all in place and my single shot shotgun was standing up in the corner. I walked through to the screened-in porch which was enclosed with clear plastic to keep out the snow from the northwest. Then I was down at the dock. Everything was enveloped in a thick blanket of snow. The picnic table and barbeque were icy gray mounds in the shadows of the trees. The lake ice pack was thick enough to walk on and I looked out to see fishing shacks on the frozen water. Some had smoke rising from their roofs. Ice fishing is not my cup of tea, and I did not feel comfortable knocking on anyone’s door out on the lake. I retreated to my cabin and opened the flue in the fireplace. I assembled the kindling and rolled some old newspaper to start a fire. Soon the place was aglow with the light and warmth from the hearth. My dream ended there, and it left me with a feeling of intense longing to be back at camp, my sanctuary and fortress in the woods.

Early Memories

April 2021

My granddaughter Lilly visited me in Florida last week with her mom and Billy, my grandson.

During their stay, Lilly made a point of asking me to have a special lunch with her, just the two of us. Her request took me aback as it was unusual coming from her as it would be from any typical teenager. I thought she might want to discuss her college selections as she is a high school junior, and the application process is on the horizon. We ended up going to that “exclusive club,” Greene’s Pharmacy, which is the local coffee shop here in Palm Beach. I figured a counter lunch is a good way to have a nice chat with Grandpa. We found our seats next to a couple of regulars who I noticed were indulging in the daily special of Philly Cheesesteak with grits. Just the thought of it makes me reach for my Pepcid. But I digress. “Grandpa,” she asked, “what is your earliest memory?” What a question! Where was this coming from, I wondered. Perhaps our after-dinner conversation the night before had stoked her curiosity. We had talked about my youth, and how I left upstate New York for college in New Jersey. We discussed my parents and the difficulties experienced by my grandparents, whom I never knew. My grandmother, Lena, sent my mother to live in an orphanage after my grandfather died in a train accident within days of their arrival in America from Lithuania. The trauma of losing her husband caused her to have a miscarriage. She had no money, did not speak the language and fell into a deep depression. My mother never discussed with me or my siblings how long she was in the orphanage. My paternal grandparents died at the hands of the Nazis who invaded the Ukraine. My father escaped, fleeing alone at the age of 13 to Hamburg, Germany, where he stowed away on a ship to Argentina. He lived in Buenos Aires for several years before making his way to the U.S. as a young man. Very little is known about my grandparents and what history I do have was gathered over the years through the Ancestry website and from the National Archives, which holds immigration records from 1800 to 1950. Both my father and mother were tight lipped about their lives as youngsters. I understand now it was because their childhoods were fraught with pain and loss. I know neither had any education and my mother became a United States citizen only when I was old enough to drive her to night school to study for the citizenship test. My father cared solely for work and supporting his family and he passed his drive and work ethic on to his three children.

But I have strayed from Lilly’s initial question. My earliest memory. Perhaps the question was a test to see if Grandpa’s long-term memory is intact. Yes, I could recall back some 75 years. I remember being carried down a long flight of stairs by my father. I was six years old. He was was dressed in his work clothes – black leather jacket, leather chaps and polished shoes. He carried me into a shiny black car for the ride home from a hospital where I later learned I had an emergency appendectomy. Lilly peppered me with more questions: “What was your childhood like? Who were your friends? How did your parents treat you? How did you get along with your brother and sister?” She was determined to learn as much about me as possible. With her grandmother gone, I was now the sole custodian of our early family history. I had the sense Lilly was moving on from her own childhood and looking at her life as it fit into the history of our extended family tree. As she continued to probe the past my memories surfaced like headlines in a newsreel. We talked about the big moments in history– I recalled the mourning over the death of FDR and watching the soldiers parade along Main Street in Rochester on VE Day; also the assassination of JFK and seeing the photos of the soldiers who had perished in Vietnam on the evening news. Lilly took in every detail and followed up with questions until it was time for us to let the next customers take our place at the counter. My lovely Lilly prompted me to recall all those early moments of my life and sharing them with her was an affirmation of who we are and where we come from. Occasionally you need to step back in time to check your pulse.

Morgan Days

April 2021

Recently I found an old family photo album with pictures of my wife Judie, now passed, and me in our old Morgan. Memories came flooding back, to my second year of law school, when we were living together as newlyweds in a basement apartment in Elizabeth, New Jersey. It was autumn, 1961. Judie had struck up a friendship with a young couple in the adjacent apartment building and made plans with them for a dinner double date. They offered to drive, so at the appointed time we waited in anticipation outside of our building on Waverley Place. Suddenly, from around the corner, flew a brand new, British racing green 2+2 Morgan, coming to a dramatic halt in front of us. The driver smiled and waved us over with his driving gloves. We were going to dinner in a Morgan? I could not believe my luck. How did Judie find two people with a Morgan in Elizabeth, New Jersey? They seemed a lovely couple, but I confess I was much more interested in their car. I was an admitted car obsessive, and this was beyond my wildest expectations. I owned a Morris Minor in 1960 and had recently traded it in for a 219 Mercedes sedan with the gift money from our wedding. But a Morgan! I had never actually seen one outside the pages of my car afficionado magazines. Climbing into the narrow backseat was an exercise in dexterity. Judie was fine—she was a trim 5 feet. My extra 7 inches in height made a big difference in a Plus 2. My knees were crushed up against my chest…and I couldn’t have been happier. Thus began my infatuation with the Morgan.

Years later, in 2000, I finally bought my own Morgan. I found a green Drop Head restored by a fellow in Connecticut. The owner shared his own story with me. As I inspected the car in a private airport, he told me how he had recently been divorced and was selling all his possessions, including his Morgan, to travel around the world in a sailboat, which he was purchasing with the proceeds from the sale of the car. The truth was, he made the deal with me at “hello.” It was perfect. After a short drive around the tarmac, I knew it was for us. I knew Judie would love it and she did, for the next 17 years.

The Morgan became our weekend car and as our family grew it was the picnic car our rides to Shelter Island. When Minnie, our darling long-haired Dachshund joined the family, she found her place between us in the front seat. Judie is gone now as is Minnie. The children have grown and moved on. I cannot think of selling the Morgan. It is like a rock that holds down all those wonderful memories over the last 21 years.

Spring Fever

April 2021

Spring fever in Florida is a wonder to behold, especially after the long quarantine. Covid is waning and people are coming out of their homes to mingle once again with strangers. Last weekend I saw outdoor services at the Bethesda Church. There were outdoor Passover dinners at several Jewish synagogues. The beaches and lake trails have been busy all year but there seems to be more groups congregating. Restaurants have been booked solid and to prove my point further this week is the first live Chamber Music concert of the season. Throughout Covid the concerts were televised live from New York. My friend Vicki, who runs the program, pulled it off and we are all gathering beforehand to raise a glass together. What a treat. Friends are talking about summer plans although not to Europe. They mention Hawaii and out West as destinations. I have some fishing trips planned but I was hoping to spend some time on the road in my old ’62 Jag before heading north. It has been in the paint shop for three months now. I guess they like having it there gathering dust. I will probably get a call midsummer asking me to find a storage place for it. Once I am back in New York I will do some sailing. The Beetle Cat is coming out of storage and will need refreshing for its dip into Georgica Pond. Last year the grandkids took a sail a couple of times at best. The storage barn with my 1960s classics -MG-TD and Morgan needs an airing. The cars are packed in so tightly my grandson must squeeze into each one of them so they can be pushed out for a fluid change and a run around the block to rid them of their mice tenants. I am heading to Maine in May for the landlocked salmon season and will open my camp for the summer. Camp is always the highlight of the warm months for me. As you can see, I have multi-state spring fever. I look forward to the weather change–the 82-degree Florida spring is too hot for me.

Fishing Days Ahead

April 2021

Life could be getting back to normal. For me it took five negative Covid tests, one positive antibody test and the two-part Moderna vaccine (with all the accompanying side effects) to get to the point where I could start thinking about fishing plans. Now that I am out of those woods, I look forward to getting back to the real thing. Colorado, the High Sierras in California and beyond our borders to Iceland, where the Atlantic Salmon and Arctic Char fishing is world class–they all beckon. But Maine is my priority. Last week I tried reaching out to Wheaton’s Lodge in Forrest City, to see about the start of landlocked salmon season. Although the ice is still thick, Patrick is usually a good predictor of the start of the melt. Wading in open waters is my preferred way to fish for salmon in Maine.

The lodge phone was out of order. It wouldn’t be unheard of if a moose ate the line for lunch. Internet in Forrest City is spotty at best, so I tried Andy, my faithful friend and guide, who spends his winter in Bangor, a more modern wilderness outpost. Andy was a bit more responsive than Wheaton’s, after several voicemails. Yes, the melt had just started and the last week of May would be the best time to come north he reported. Time to set the wheels in motion.

My journalist friend from Atlanta, Billy, has informed me that Delta is flying direct from Atlanta to Bangor on Saturdays starting next month. One more way to get from Florida to Maine and now I can stop in Atlanta for a visit en route. I have blocked out my office calendar with dates from May through September. Filling the slots with friends and family takes more time. I want my best lady, Patti, to join me, as well has my high school buddies from Rochester. My children and grandchildren have priority and get first dibs on which days to come up.

As remote as the camp may be, I rarely find myself alone there. Especially since Lori and Ted, my neighbors, have promised to visit more often. Last year Ted and I found the Beaver Dam Pond where we caught the lovely Brook Trout. This year we plan to fish Dark Cove for trout in my new acquisition: a 20-foot Grand Lake canoe. I am planning to spend more time at camp this year to make up for the absences due to Covid.

The other day I got a call from my friend Erik to join him fishing in Jackson Hole, Wyoming in August. We had fished together several years ago in Colorado. My date card is filling up and I am excited. The fishing gods are looking down, promising a wonderful summer with plenty of fish and friends. I hope the mice get the message and vacate the cabin before I arrive.

Sutters Camp

March 2021

Sutters Club in Doaktown, New Brunswick, Canada, began as a private fishing camp in 1994, open on a limited basis to friends and family members. In August of 2000, I was invited to the camp by Joe, an old friend and club member at the time, for a salmon fishing expedition on the Miramachi River. Joe flew seven of us up on a private plane, which was a thrill. My attitude on the flight was to keep my mouth shut and keep a low profile. The others on the trip were all young Wall Street types and Joe was their boss. I sat in the back of the jet and read while the rest of the group kept up an animated work- related discussion for the duration of the flight. After a few hours travel time, we arrived at Sutters camp, located on 50 pristine acres of Canadian wilderness.

The lodge was understated, with small but comfortable bedrooms. There was a master bedroom for Joe, our host, who came to breakfast the next morning in his pajamas. We all followed suit for the rest of the trip, so each morning we met in our pjs for an all-you-can-eat feast. It was such a casual and cool atmosphere, I will never forget it. Breakfast was the traditional fishing camp menu: eggs, bacon, sausage, bread baked that morning, fried tomatoes and urns of freshly brewed coffee. I took a few Pepcids afterward, then we all went off into canoes to fish the pools assigned to us—two guests to a canoe with a guide. My companion was a Harvard Business School grad who was just starting out in the finance world. He seemed nervous about saying or doing anything that would burn him with the boss. I was just there to fish and enjoy myself. We were casting from a 20-foot wide-bodied wooden canoe, typical of Canadian waters. I had my 8-weight rod and the guide provided the flies. Of course, after a while with no activity the guide started with the usual excuses: “the water is too low” “the water is too high” “you should have been here last week” “we should have fished in another pool” “the sun is too bright” and on and on. The usual excuses until someone strikes. I could tell my fishing companion was feeling competitive with his colleagues. I did not care about keeping score. Sure, I would have liked to bring a salmon to the net but it wasn’t the end of the world for me. The Pepcid was doing its job and I loved just being out on the water. I understood the competitiveness amongst the others, in a way a reflection of a desire to prove their worth. This excursion was another aptitude test, like the one they took to get into business school. I felt a bit sorry for them. Here we were fishing the beautiful Miramachi River—one of the best salmon rivers in North America—the sun was shining, the weather was warm, and it all seemed idyllic, but they were self-conscious and couldn’t really relax, even when they were in their breakfast pajamas. I had not felt that level of competitiveness since 1972, when I left a big New York City law firm for the country, to control my own destiny. I had no one else to account to, only myself and my willingness to succeed. For those young guys catching a fish was like grabbing the golden ring on a merry-go-round. I was probably the only other guest with fishing experience aside from the host and as it turned out I was the only one to hook a nice salmon. The guide was thrilled that our pool had produced a fish on his beat.

At the end of the day my canoe mate tried to conceal his disappointment. He had watched me struggle to finesse the salmon to the net and offered his congratulations. Of course, I felt good but downplayed my satisfaction. Upon landing at the dock, when asked how it went, I deflected any attention with a quiet “Okay” and left my canoe mate to tell the story. Fishing is about more than the catching. It is about the camaraderie and being in nature. You need to maintain your humility for those times when everyone around you catches and you get skunked.

Danforth

March 2021

It is that time of year when I start thinking about getting back to camp in Maine. The landlocked salmon season opens in May and I want to be there when the ice melts. I have written extensively about my experiences at camp in my column here but thought I would share a few more details about myself and about Danforth. My camp is about 80 miles north of Bangor, on the northeast coast of Maine along the border with New Brunswick, Canada. My cabin sits on the shore of East Grand Lake, a majestic body of water formed many years ago by a series of dams, as a route for the logging industry. Small-mouthed bass, land-locked salmon, and lake trout are common and draw fishermen from far and wide- mainly from Boston and from throughout Maine. Sharing a boundary with Canada is beneficial since the Canadian side is all wilderness preserve. Most of the time I fish in Canadian waters. There is a heavy presence of Homeland Security here since there are several border crossings up and down the coast. The lake is closed in the evenings to boat traffic and drug running has all but ceased since the drones started flying. My camp road is at the terminus of US Route 1 which runs from Maine to Key West, Florida. Every time I drive south onto Route 1 I feel I am back on the road to civilization so to speak. Danforth is downsized from what it was when the logging industry was dominant. The center of town is comprised of little more than a gas station, a general store and a coffee shop, all of which exist in one non-descript building. The clientele is mostly truck drivers hauling wood, who have stopped on the way to the few remaining plants that process pulp for transport to China. The houses that remain standing in Danforth are grand old mansions of another era when logging was king. Most are diminished by years of neglect and the long, hard Maine winters. The local school has only a few children. There is plenty of history here but few to share it. The economy is pretty much supported by the remaining paper industry and tourists like me. My main attraction in town in Dave’s Hardware. Dave has everything from antiques to screen doors. But Dave, like everyone else in Danforth, is ready to leave. The sign in his front window says, “For Sale- Hardware Business Including Inventory – Make Offer.” There is no police presence and the EMT is voluntary as is the Fire Department. The retail has been devastated. First, by the decline of logging, secondly by the arrival of a Walmart 45 minutes to the south in Lincoln and another one 45 minutes to the north in Houlton—Danforth is caught in the middle like a kid being taunted by two bullies– and the final blow was of course the Covid scourge. Unless you arrive on the lake by seaplane and a few people do, the highway goes through Lincoln, home to a mall with a McDonalds, a Hortons, and the Walmart. I drive the 45 minutes to Lincoln every Sunday for the New York Times. Recently I was offered internet service at my camp. This was a major advance, especially for me. I still practice law and the internet has enabled me to work remotely from camp when I wish. I will not connect to a TV. I am holding out. I have a wonderful library of my outdoor books as well as an accumulation of my fishing stories from all over the world, documented in photo books.

I found Danforth by accident. Several years ago, I was fishing in Canada for salmon and took a sea plane rather than drive. We landed on East Grand Lake to pick up some friends with a cabin there, and I saw a For Sale sign. When I could not connect to cell service, I knew this was the area I wanted as my wilderness escape, finally. I have been fortunate to take fishing trips to Patagonia, Wales, Labrador, Chile, Slovenia, and out west to California. I will always cherish those trips, especially the one to the Sierras, which brought me to Downieville. But Danforth, imperfect though it may be, is my getaway. I cannot wait to trade the Florida sunshine for the cool, brisk Maine spring.

A Fishing Expedition

February 2021

With this column I begin looking back at the beginnings of my love affair with fly fishing. It all started on a snowy winter day in 1990. The office was closed due to the weather and the kids were home from school. I was still in my pajamas, settled into an overstuffed chair by the fire, leafing through some old magazines on the coffee table. An article caught my eye, about the Rockefeller restoration of the Beaverkill Valley Inn in Lew Beach, Catskills, New York. Larry Rockefeller, scion of the Rockefeller family, had undertaken to buy an entire valley leading from Route 17 to the hamlet of Lew Beach–a valley bisected by the Beaverkill River, the legendary waterway fed by hundreds of tributaries and considered to be the birthplace of American dry fly-fishing over 130 years ago. The article intrigued me, especially on this wintry day, with spring only months away. A getaway was an especially compelling idea in that moment – why? Was I looking for a break from the rigors of the law office, and from bucolic, but always bustling East Hampton? Was it the need for quiet time and independence from my surroundings? I had not read previously about fishing, in fact, I had never taken a fishing rod in hand in my 50 years. Perhaps it was something we were calling a mid-life crisis. Or more likely a need for a fresh start at something where one had no previous experience or instruction – a start from scratch.
The prospect of a new challenge combined with the promise of a quiet getaway was a seductive one. I have been a life-long cross-country runner, which has similar appeal- the solitude, as well as the constantly changing terrain that test endurance and ability. I also love a good walk in the woods. Of course, a fishing trip also meant a pleasant distance drive on the open road far away from the Long Island Expressway. I made the decision to become a fly-fisherman. Or at least try.

I had a few months to figure out all the details: the clothing, the tackle—a new word for me back then–the route upstate and the guide arrangements. Rather than going it alone the first time, I rustled up three like-minded friends: Peter, an old friend who I could convince to go anywhere, Jay an oral surgeon and gear nerd who had some fishing experience with other gear nerds, and Leon, an orthopedic surgeon with fishing experience because he had a pond in his back yard. There was a lot to arrange and talk about. All pre-internet, I went through my contact list to find someone familiar with the sport, who could provide some insight into the essentials. Jeff, my long-time accountant, sent me an old fishing vest his father had used and passed on to him. He told me about Orvis, the all-purpose fishing supplier; I was advised to buy the cheapest 5-weight, 6-foot fishing rod with reel and line for beginners. Waders came in only one size then, so I bought the least expensive pair as well. I was prepared with gear, except I was clueless as to the flies one tied onto the line. That instruction would have to wait until we were with the fishing guide. Today, after all these years, I am still clueless when it comes to which fly to use for which fish and in which conditions. I am now learning to tie flies, to gain a better grasp of these intricacies.

Finally, the June weekend reserved for the trip arrived. With trepidation I loaded up my “vintage” ‘79 Bentley on Friday night. I had the garage check the car to be certain it was ready for the trip, and it passed the informal inspection. I packed a couple of quarts of hydraulic fluid in the trunk in case the brakes needed a refill –a common issue with the Bentley of that era. This was the same car that had caught fire on the Long Island Expressway a year before. I was cautioned to use a more reliable vehicle, but the British racing green Bentley fit my fantasy of fly fishing. Early the next morning, I drove the 100 miles into New York City to pick up the guys—commonly called “sports” the old days. The photographs I took show the three amigos in their country flannel garb, all similar and smiling anxiously over the Bentley’s ability to make the trip. I carried the Triple A card with me just in case. Eventually we made our way over the George Washington Bridge for the Thruway leading to Route 17 along the Beaverkill River, to exit 96 for Livingston Manor. So far, the Bentley had only burned gasoline. The brakes worked fine. The Sports were ready for lunch before we were halfway there. My friend Peter navigated us to the Red Apple, a cafeteria-style establishment on Route 17. Today the Red Apple is a decaying roadside diner of the past. It closed permanently in 2006. But for us on our voyage, it was part of the adventure. Peter had spent many breakfasts in the Red Apple on trips upstate in his youth. The rest of us got to discover it anew. Open 365 days a year, 24 hours a day, Red Apple was the roadside diner to the stars who played the Catskill circuit from the 1920s through the 1970s. By the time of our visit in 1990 it had lost its luster. The owners of the Red Apple had long passed on and it was now a Greek family that owned it –at that point it still had another 20 years of life. Not Peter’s recollection of it but more than adequate for us. We satisfied our hunger and the four of us—two doctors, a lawyer, and a real estate developer–all of us fishing novices–moved on toward the Beaver Kill exit.

My three buddies and I rambled up Route 17 in my old Bentley to Beaverkill, our fishing destination. I was beginning to regret the Catskill lunch of pastrami and eggs with home fries from our stop at the Red Apple Diner. It was bringing back memories, for all the wrong reasons. I recalled going as a youngster to the Borscht Belt a few times on family vacations. The buffets really stood out: so colorful, bountiful and to my palate, delicious. The hotels had an “all you can eat” policy and I took them at their word. I always paid the price afterward. This situation wasn’t as bad, but after driving into New York City early to pick up the guys I had already been in motion for hours, and now here I was once again suffering the consequences of an excessive, over-indulgent, Catskill meal.

After more than a few stops for gas–the Bentley doesn’t burn gas but devours it at a rate of about a gallon a mile-we arrived at the somewhat ramshackle but charming Beaverkill Valley Inn. The rooms had a subtle, mildewy aroma of many roof leaks past, while a few dead flies dotted the windowsills. We were in the country. I urged everyone to dress casually for the rest of the day–shorts and tee shirts. No fancy Orvis gear when we meet our fly-fishing guide. Downstairs in the parlor, freshly baked cookies and iced tea were offered. My buddies indulged even thought they had just come off a massive meal on the highway. It was free and there were no wives to say stop eating.

Our guide showed up and we met with him on the porch. A cigarette dangled from his lips, he had a scruffy beard and hair that shot out in every direction from under his baseball cap–not exactly the image conveyed by the Town and Country article that had inspired this trip. My friend Leon ignored my sartorial advice and appeared with waders on and his Brooks Brothers shirt with sleeves rolled up to his elbows. The guide took us over to a pond nearby and showed us how to assemble and hold a rod. It all seemed pretty simple until I tried to cast and found my line caught in a tree 30 feet behind me. The guide tied a fly onto a line and I peered over his shoulder to watch the technique. Ashes from his cigarette floated and descended on the feathery little lure. I knew the fly was meant to be a lure or bait but otherwise I was clueless. With the fly tied firmly to the line, the guide took the rod and cast effortlessly into the pond. Almost instantly a trout leaped up to grab the bait. I was astonished. How could that happen to so fast? Well, it seems we were at the “Beginners’ Pond.” It held non-native trout born and bred there for the sole purpose of teaching people like me how to fish. Apparently, they were fed regularly with irresistible food that was the fish equivalent of catnip. The fly was made with this special formula and the fish would have flown into your pocket for it if they knew it was there. “That’s fishing,” the guide said, and we all laughed. Come on I thought, there must be more to it than that. Surely the wild trout in the stream don’t fall for the specially formulated beginner pond fish food. That was true, but the lesson was clear–at least I thought so: entice the fish with what looks like their regular diet. It was a lesson that could be applied to people too, I thought. Give people what they know and like and they’ll keep coming back.

We followed the guide back up to the porch and all sat down at a table for a lesson on flies. He showed us the different fly varieties and how each acted upon the trout’s feeding instinct. He spoke of the entomology of water life that appear to the fish below and on the water. I didn’t understand a thing. My doctor friends were really into the science and asked a lot of questions which were way over my head. Peter asked if there were any more cookies. There is a picture from our visit to Beaverkill of me in my oversized waders and the old fishing vest holding a teacup filled with cookies. It appears to be after a day of fishing on the stream-ha ha. I never caught a thing but a bad stomach on the way up. My fellow “sports” and I enjoyed the drive, the food and especially the cookies. In fact, we packed away a few for the trip home. We would obviously be going back again to Beaverkill, and we did.

More Conversations

February 2021

Super Bowl 2021 is now in the record books, but when I look back on that weekend, Brady’s laser-like touchdown passes, the evening with friends –and the slight food hangover afterward—only form part of the picture. A few of us committed to keeping our mouths shut (no politics) while we watched and ate through the game in Tampa. The group was eclectic: several retirees, a self-professed foodie, a former cheerleader, a friend whose car was stolen the night before, an avid senior equestrian, a motivated art dealer, and the hostess who had to corral us all. The talk was minimal as we devoured what we had supposedly sworn off: pigs in a blanket, mini hamburgers and, especially meaningful to our molars, some deliciously gluey Chicago-style popcorn. However, what really stands out to me from Super Bowl LV is what happened on Super Bowl Saturday.

I had a last-minute idea to bring something special to our Superbowl gathering: custom-printed t-shirts commemorating the event for everyone to wear during the party. I warmed up my iphone at 4pm on Saturday and found a shop in West Palm open until 5pm. If I went over immediately, they would scrape together a dozen shirts designed for me for game day. Using GPS I found the neighborhood–a rundown industrial area–then even GPS got lost in the endless rows of warehouses and empty lots. I had to call the the owner to direct me for the last mile and finally found the shop in what looked like a garage. Worth Avenue it wasn’t. Yet, upon entering the humble establishment, it was clear they had all the latest technology for a thriving custom t-shirt operation. I spent three hours there, as the owner built and executed the design. I was fascinated watching the process, but the highlight for me was getting to know him and the other people I encountered that night. The owner opened up about his life: he was born in Wyoming but went to Israel to serve in their army, and it was there that he met his wife, a native Israeli. They moved back to the U.S. together, for a life freer of religious restrictions. Both were Trump supporters—to be expected in West Palm—but their fervor had been tempered by the insurrection at the Capitol. Our conversation was interrupted by another after- hours customer who was apparently a regular and he immediately joined our gab fest. He went by “Lucky”, but his real name was Marvin. He talked about his restored 1974 Chevy Impala convertible parked in front and since we both had time, he took me outside to have a look. Wow what a car. Lucky has a successful internet retail clothing business which had grown out of his bricks and mortar store when it closed due to Covid. With his store business shut down, he took the leap and put everything into his shop online. You can read all you want about the decimation of retail because of the pandemic but when you hear it from a small retailer firsthand you really feel the sting. Lucky is more than just lucky—he is a smart entrepreneur. My hat is off to him and the hardworking owners of the tee shirt shop.

The next day, the t-shirts were a huge hit at the party. They may be the beginning of a tradition – for the Superbowl and who knows what else?

Fishing Friends

February 2021

I received a photograph in the mail the other day. It was of a Magnolia tree that I planted some 20 years ago as a two-foot sapling. In the picture the tree is fully grown, thick with leaves and tall enough to shade the two young ladies standing beneath it. Magnolias are usually associated with the American South, but I planted this tree in a small town called Crickhowell Powys, in rural Wales, UK. How and why did I travel so far to add one more tree to an already verdant, forested landscape? Well, it started with fish, and the route went through Alaska. I was on a trip to Bristol Bay, the easternmost arm of the Bering Sea, fishing for rainbow trout and wild salmon, and staying at the Mission Lodge, a huge but comfortably rustic, all-inclusive fishing hotel. I met Paul and Phelam one evening in the lounge, and we struck up one of those easy, pre-dinner cocktail conversations that can happen when the liquor is free. Paul was a filmmaker of wildlife documentaries and Phelam was a producer with the BBC. Nice fellows and pleasant to visit with. During the conversation they mentioned that they were both from Wales. My adventure bucket list started to rattle. I mentioned I had read about the wildlife in Wales and would love to visit some time. We drifted off to dinner that night and the next day were out early on the Beaver Floatplanes to our various fishing destinations.

We never crossed paths again at Mission Lodge, as Paul and Phelam were en route to northern Alaska to camp out and fish for Arctic Grayling. When I returned home later that week there was an email from Paul inviting me to visit their fishing lodge, Gliffaes House in Powys, Wales, for the following year. I didn’t need to be persuaded. I went the next spring and Paul and Phelam introduced me to the wonders of trout fishing the magnificent River Wye. My gift to them was the American Magnolia tree, which I planted during that visit. Paul is a superb fishing guide and I have joined him on a number of trips since that first one to Wales. Today the tree stands as a symbol for the friendships that evolved from a common love for fishing and the outdoors that crosses all boundaries and borders.